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Countless women have expressed joy at finally being able to wear the sexy clothes they wouldn’t dare put on anywhere else in public.
They talk about a boost in self-confidence, how they feel desire when men look at them approvingly.
In many swinging clubs clicks are formed based on how one looks.
Most women don’t know what to expect and they often ask themselves: Am I pretty enough? I don’t want to embarrass myself by looking too slutty or too matronly.” Some addressed the concerns associated with jealousy and competition: “What if my husband finds other women more attractive than me? ” However, it doesn’t take long for most women to realize that how you look is probably only part of the process, and that, in the end, how they look physically isn’t that important at all: “Confidence is the most important feature of being sexy” said another one.
I don’t want to be alone sitting at a table while he makes out with someone else on the dance floor. Some women posited: “Being overweight doesn’t make you less sexy or less appealing, it’s how you think of yourself that is important.” After the very first “swinging” experience, many women have stated that their husband looked at them with “ fresh eyes” and showed a higher level of sexual desire for them, that often rekindles the sexual spark and allows them to feel confident once again.
For women, feeling desired is a great confidence builder, and most women reported enjoying being seduced and desired.
It has often been said in the swinging community that women control what happens in swinging. After the initial nervousness wears off, it is the women who have the final say on who “parties with whom” and how (couples only, girl on girl, threesomes, group sex, including the enforcement of safe sex rules).
If the woman isn’t interested in an individual or a couple, a polite excuse is given.